There comes a time...

There comes a time in every woman's life when she has to take a close look at herself. Not at her circumstance not at what she did, not how unfair life is or not at whom made you do it. She just has to look at herself in all her GLORY and IMPERFECTIONS... For many women this is a scary thing because often times they don't want to know the truth about themselves. Virtuous women know what I mean.... As women, we have a tendency to water one another down maybe it makes us feel good or look better than the next woman. Or maybe we just don't know how to tell that woman we ADMIRE her....In reality we need to look at ourselves and the pain we project towards other women. Have you ever admired a woman who has been through CHANGES in her life? Or have you made up your mind that she is just messed up? Before you make this mistake, take a closer look. A woman who has endured the most unusual life is someone of WISDOM Someone who has been chosen by GOD to go through things that have made her stronger. Have you ever wondered why some women aren't approachable? Or have you made up your mind that she is just mean? A quiet woman is a smart woman. She is valuable. Have you ever wondered about that woman who appears to have everything, yet is still unhappy? Well she doesn't have everything. She doesn't have personal VALIDATION This is something that cant be bought. This is something developed over many mistakes and challenges that have taught lessons of the unbearable. So let it go and just love you and your own circumstances....... The prettiest girl in the world can have hell up in her heart.... What more can I say but we, as women want a man to respect us BUT WE CANT EVEN RESPECT each other.!! - Unknown