U should never ...

U should never base ur happiness on a person or thing it should be found with then ur self worth understanding ur needs and wants and desires are one thing.but to truly know happiness u have to know urself self is not something ready-made,but something in continues formation through choice of action sometimes in our relentless efforts to find the person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who Love us.We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns.Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but the man who loves you more.The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance far enough to allow the person to grow but never too far to feel the love deep with in your being.To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving them,it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back.Letting go is not just setting the other person free,but it is also setting yourself free from all the bitterness,hatred,and anger that you keep in your heart.Do Not let the bitterness scare away your strength and weaken your faith,and never allow your pain to dishearten you, but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it.you may find peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return.But be careful for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today. There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find outselves getting so intensely attracted to that person.This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for you than just a friendship.We start out desperate attemt to get noticed and be closer but in the end out efforts are still unearned and we end up bring sorry for ourselves. You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. You would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lost someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow if you lose love that doesn't mean you failed in love. Cry if you have to, just make sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and Love will find its way back to you.nothing else should matter if u love someone. Don't let the bad outweigh the good. Yes problems are inevitable but if we overcome it. Our relationship will just grow stronger. If a friendship naturally evolves into something much more. Then keep it strong. Sometimes fear overcomes our decisions. That's when regrets follow. If u trusted the person aversion's you've met. And they still show you that they could be trusted. Then there's something special about that person. Keep them close. Because its soo hard to find the perfect person that compromises who you are. - Unknown